The issue I have with the doctrine of eternal security is and that you believe, and I was indoctrinated with, and believed for over 27 years, is that it assumes that God continues to abide in the believer, even when he willingly gives into doing the gross sins of the flesh and this is a lie. (Note I have reworded and condensed this question. This person believes in "sinless perfect." This means he do not sin in the fless and if he did he would be lost.)
What does the phrase "and as many as were ordained to eternal life believed" in Acts 13:48 mean?
When women preachers/pastors peach are those who respond truly saved?
Are we saved by faith alone or grace alone?
What does the phrase "Once saved, Always saved" mean?
Is the forgiveness of sins to all men but salvation is only to those who have faith in God?
Do you believe someone can be saved without "feeling" the godly sorrow that works repentance?
What happens to Christians who sin? What about committing murder and adultery?
I was telling an acquaintance about Heaven, and he said he did not want to go because he does not like Christians. In his words "Christians are all holier-then-thou pious people who think everything is a sin. If Heaven is full of people like that, I don't want to go!" How do I answer something like that?
Exactly what does the phrase in Romans 10:13 mean "call upon the Lord"?
Do you get a special feeling when you are saved?
Do you believe that people can lose their salvation?
Can a Christian fall from grace?
Do you believe in original sin?
Does the blood of Christ only refer to his death?
According to the Bible what happens after we accept Christ and we live a normal life?
What is a "sin unto death" (1 John 5:16-17)
The Bible tell us that Jesus Christ alone is the way of salvation, is truth and is life. . . there is no other way. Jesus did not say I am "a" way or one of many ways....He said I am "the" way and so there would be no misunderstanding, the verse ends with ". . .no man cometh to the Father, but by me." This is God's plan for man's redemption. This is the truth that the Bible calls the "Gospel" with means "Good News." Note what the Bible says is the Gospel: "Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures." This is the message that the Apostle Paul, preached and that men believed and were saved and received eternal life. (1 Cor. 15:1-4)
First, all men are sinners...that means you and I. "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God. They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one." (Romans 3:10-14) This describes the state of men....lost in sin!
Further God tells us in Romans 6:23, "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." In other words the result of our sin will bring death. Yet, the verse also says the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Note how eternal life is available...through Jesus Christ our Lord.
God explains how the "gift of salvation" is received. "That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. . .He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." (John 3:16-15. 36)
The verse explains how a person is saved....by belief in Jesus Christ, it also explains why men are condemned...they do not believe on the name of the only begotten Son of God.
God's tells us over and over in His word that salvation is through Jesus Christ and Him only.
Here is the problem. People like Mahatma Gandhi do admirable things for their country and people. But Mahatma Gandhi was a Hindu who denied Jesus Christ was the only begotten Son of God. He was a great political leader and he sacrificed greatly to free his people from British rule, but spiritually he was a failure. As a Hindu, he only believed that Jesus was a good teacher or prophet. He did not accept Jesus Christ as the Savior and of God's only begotten Son. Gandhi rejected Jesus Christ as his Savior and believed that by doing good works in this life he could earn the right in the next life to be someone greater than he was here. He believed in reincarnation which teaches a man comes back to earth after life and that a man can merit or earn by good works a better existence. Hindus believe a man can come back as a cow, tree, or anything living. What he is reincarnated to is determined by how he lived his present life. The problem with all this is that it is just not true.
Hebrews 9:27 says, "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment."
God who created us says there is no reincarnation. After a man dies he goes into eternity...saved because he believed and accepts Christ as his Savior, or goes into eternity lost, to suffer in torment in the eternity Lake of Fire. (Rev. 20"15-18).
God tells us: "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast." (Ephesians 2:8-9)
No one can merit salvation or earn it. We are sinners under the condemnation of our sin, yet the Lord Jesus Christ came to the earth and He paid our sin debt, the debt we could not pay. If a man will believe and accept this truth, that he is a sinner and that Jesus Christ paid for his sin by His death on the Cross...if any man will repent of his sins and ask God in belief to forgive him....God gives the free gift of salvation. This is the only way forgiveness of sin is received and eternal life....by belief and trust in Jesus Christ alone.
Every man will be judged by whether he believed and accepted Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior or not. Each man comes before God condemned or saved by one question. The question is did the man received Jesus Christ by faith or did he reject God gift of salvation.
Revelation 20:11-15, describes the judgment of all who try to earn their salvation by good works and being a wonderful person. Because these lost people rejected God's plan and substituted their way, their names were not written in the Book of Life, they all will be cast into the eternal Lake of Fire. The only way to get one's name recorded in the Book of Life is to believe, repent of one's sin and accept Jesus Christ as Savior.
It is OK to admire great men in history and their accomplishments. But they do not provide the way of salvation. Only God can give that because He is our only Creator and God. He has revealed His plan of salvation in the Bible and provided salvation for us....But we all must believe . . .and accept his forgiveness and salvation. This is the only way to be saved.
If you are interested in studying this further I have two articles on my site that biblically explains this truth.
Man is not guilty and judged because of Adam's sin, but for our own sins which result from the fact we have a nature to sin and all men sin.
Romans 5:12, explains this. Adam sinned and his sin brought sin and death to all men. The death spoken of is both physical and spiritual death.
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Adam's sin is referred to as the "fall of man." Romans 5:12 explains: "Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned. . ." Adam's sin made him a sinner and he lost the innocence in which he was created. Thus Adam's sin brought death to the earth, both physical and spiritual. On rejecting God instructions, Adam became corrupt and that included his very nature. His disobedience brought his corruption on his children...and to all mankind. However, we are not judged by Adam's sin, but for our own sin. Revelation 20:12 "And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works." Because all men are born with the "carnal" nature, which is the nature to sin, they will sin. Nowhere in the Bible does God say that man is condemned for Adam's sin, but rather our own sins. Adam gave us the nature to sin, but His sin is not imputed to us. Note that Romans 5:12 states that "death passed upon all men, FOR ALL HAVE SINNED." God put the last phrase into the sentence to qualify the reason that men are judged by their own sin. Verse 21 states that although sin reigned to death, "even so might grace reign through righteousness unto eternal life by Jesus Christ our Lord."
Jesus explained why men are condemned when speaking to Nicodemus the Jewish Pharisee that thought his birth as a Jew and keeping the law (works) would save him. Jesus said, "And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God." (John 3:19-21) In other words, truth which is the Gospel of Jesus Christ, has come into the world, but men are rejecting it. Therefore they condemn themselves by their unbelief.
You should read the whole book of Romans which states that no one is saved from sin by their works (Chron. 3 & 4). Chapter 3 explains we are personally guilty for our sin and Chapter 4, that one is not saved by works. Chapter 5 explains that Christ paid the debt for our sin. Chapter 6, because man is saved from sin...he should fight sin in his life.
Again you have a chance to understand the truth that your works will not save you and repent of your sin....to God ...not some priest....and be saved and receive eternal life. God says, in Hebrews 4:16 "Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.'
Note Romans 10:9-11, "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed."
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They teach the blood has no significance in itself. Others teach take the view that the blood of Christ has special significance because the New Testament speaks of Christ's blood being offered for our redemption and that blood played an important part in the Old Testament sacrifices which pictures Christ's sacrifice for our sins.
The extreme position is that the blood of Christ was taken to heaven and is applied to all who believe and that Christ will bring it back when He returns. I take the view that the blood of Christ has special significance because of the verses which mention it as follows:
Ephesians 2:13 But now in Christ Jesus ye who sometimes were far off are made nigh by the blood of Christ.
Hebrews 9:14 How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?
1 Peter 1:2 Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
1 Peter 1:19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:
1 John 1:7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
1 John 5:6 This is he that came by water and blood, even Jesus Christ; not by water only, but by water and blood . And it is the Spirit that beareth witness, because the Spirit is truth.
Revelation 1:5 And from Jesus Christ, who is the faithful witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood
Honestly, I do not fully understand the matter and doubt whether others fully do either, but I know that is through Christ's shed blood man can be saved if they believe. I simply believe what the Bible says about the matter and know that I will understand fully when I get to heaven.
I think it is wrong and serious error for men like Mac Arthur to speak so emphatically that the blood only refers to Christ's death, making little of the statement itself and God's emphasis on it. If God choose to use the statement that salvation is through the blood of Christ....then He had good reason to do so and no Bible teacher or preacher should try to explain it away or down pay its significance. If it has no special significance then why is it so prominent in the Old Testament sacrifices? When the sacrificial animals were killed their throats were cut and their blood pour out. The blood of the lamb was sprinkled on the door posts at the Passover. Further, the Jews were prohibited from eating blood. I think we best believe God's word and literally take the Word of God for what it says, the shed blood of Jesus Christ has special significance to God...and it ought too for us also.
That is one reason the concept of grace plus works is in error. Grace is not grace that has to be earned or merited in any way. God freely, by His own will and design, offers mercy, forgiven for sin and eternal life to all who will by faith receive it. To earn it or work for it or do some religious ceremony nullifies grace and changes it from a free given gift to something merited. That's why Eph. 2:8--9 is so important to understand.
God tells us in the verse that "For by grace ye are saved" meaning we are saved by God's unmerited or earned love and benevolence to us. God then makes the statement stronger by saying, "through faith, it is the "gift" of God. It is hard to misunderstand this, because He says salvation is a gift. Gifts are not earned. However, if I try to earn God grace it is not grace any more, but merited payment or reward for some action. God does not reward us for our good works by forgiving our sins. Man is a sinner and totally unable to save himself being guilty of sin. God says, "Not of works, least an man should boast." I cannot see how anyone can miss what the passage is saying, ...salvation is by God's unmerited favor and gift to all who by faith will believe and receive it. It is not a reward, or something earned or worked for....therefore no man can say (boast) he earned any part of his salvation. Christ paid the whole sin debt of man....man as a sinner under the penalty of sin....with no righteousness and has nothing to offer for sin.
That's what Rom. 4:5 says, "But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness."
Note what Paul wrote Titus, Titus 3:5 "Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost."
Note the principle of righteous as stated in the following verses:
Romans 3:25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;
Romans 3:26 To declare, I say, at this time his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.
Romans 4:6 Even as David also describeth the blessedness of the man, unto whom God imputeth righteousness without works,
Romans 5:17 For if by one man's offense death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ.)
Romans 5:18 Therefore as by the offense of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life.
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The last part of the verse you quoted answers your question. John 14:6, "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me."
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The Bible teaches that if a person believes in Jesus Christ and repents of their sin by faith asking God to save them they become a child of God and receive eternal life and eternal life means salvation lasts forever. No, I do not believe a truly saved person can lose their salvation because God says they can't.
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Original or the first sin was the sin of Adam and Eve who disobeyed God and in doing so received the sin nature which they passed to all their progeny, which is you and me. Because man has a sin nature he is born a sinner and sins against God.
13 (For until the law sin was in the world: but sin is not imputed when there is no law.
14 Nevertheless death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over them that had not sinned after the similitude of Adam's transgression, who is the figure of him that was to come.
15 But not as the offense, so also is the free gift. For if through the offense of one many be dead, much more the grace of God, and the gift by grace, which is by one man, Jesus Christ, hath abounded unto many.
16 And not as it was by one that sinned, so is the gift: for the judgment was by one to condemnation, but the free gift is of many offenses unto justification.
17 For if by one man's offense death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ.)
18 Therefore as by the offense of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life.
19 For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous.
20 Moreover the law entered, that the offense might abound. But where sin abounded, grace did much more abound:
21 That as sin hath reigned unto death, even so might grace reign through righteousness unto eternal life by Jesus Christ our Lord.
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Some like John Mac Arthur seem to believe that the term "shed blood" only means death. Is this what your are referring too?
1 Corinthians 10:16 The cup of blessing which we bless, is it not the communion of the blood of Christ? The bread which we break, is it not the communion of the body of Christ?
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The biblical definition, which I accept, is "unmerited favor." That means unearned or merited favor freely given.
Romans 3:22 Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference:
Romans 10:10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
1 Corinthians 1:30 But of him are ye in Christ Jesus, who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption:
1 Corinthians 15:34 Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.
Galatians 2:21 I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.
Philippians 3:9 And be found in him, not having mine own righteousness, which is of the law, but that which is through the faith of Christ, the righteousness which is of God by faith:
However, being saved does not eradicate the old nature to sin. John says speaking to Christians, "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us." (1 John 1:8) In the next verse he states God's provision for overcoming sin in a Christian's life. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all righteousness." (1 John 1:9) Because a saved man believes in Christ, he has a new nature which convicts him of any sin in his life. The Christian therefore is to confess his sins and the process of admitting sin and confessing it will work (with God's help) to cleanse that sin from his life. But if, when a Christian sins, he does not confess it God will chasten him, even as a parent will chasten their child to correct it. (Please read Hebrews 12:4-17) If God's chastening fails to turn his child from sin, God will make his sick as part of his chastening and if that fails God will take that Christian's life.
"But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup. For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord's body. For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep." (1 Corinthians 11:28-30) These verses explain that a believer who does not "discern" the Lord's body will receive the sharp chasten hand of God. To not discern the Lord's body means to live in unrepentant sin which makes light of Christ's suffering for that person's sin. The one who is not discerning of the Lord's body is one who willfully, blatantly and uncaringly makes little of Christ's suffering for them. John also speaks of sin that will lead to a believers death. (1 John 5:16)
A man who professes to be a Christian, and yet lives an immoral sinful life and is not being chastened by God according to the Bible is not a child of God. The lack of chastening is evidence that person has not truly believed in Christ as their Savior. The Book of Hebrews says, "But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons." (Hebrews 12:8)
In Colossians 1:28, the Apostle said, "Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus" (Colossians 1:28) Surely, no man on this earth is perfect and in himself can ever be perfect. Yet, God declares us perfect in His sight through Jesus Christ. It is a judicial act of God in redemption to forgive those that believe and declare them totally justified. ( Rom. 3:24, 28; 5:1; 8:30; Gal. 2:16-17:Titus 3:17;1 John 2:2)
Paul also address those who try to attempt to substitute their own righteousness for God's: "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness, and going about to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God." (Romans 10:3)
If your question is about reward in heaven the answer is "yes" Christ does give reward for good works! (I am not saying that being in God's presence is a reward. Salvation is not a reward, but the gift of God freely given to those who will receive it. But believers will receive rewards once we get to heaven based on our obedience to the Lord)
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This is called the "bema" judgment of God. It is not a judgment of condemnation, but like the "bema" of Greek Olympic games was a place of degrees of reward. The "bema" judgment in the Olympic games is the place where athletes receive their metals or rewards. Those that lost in the games are not at the "bema." Only believers are at this judgment. The Bible explains that the believer's works will be placed in a fire. Their works are described as being like unto gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, and stubble. A Christian's faithful works for the Lord are liken unto gold, silver and precious stones which the fire will not destroy. However, in believer's life are works done in the flesh, not none in faith and in God's will, thus these will be consumed in the fire. Verse 15, says there will be some who have no works, and that person will suffer loss, but they themselves will be saved.
Other Scriptures speak of crowns that believers will receive. For references to these passages see: 1 Cor. 9:25, 1 Thess. 2:19, 2 Tim. 4:8, James 1:12, 1 Pet. 5:4, Rev. 2:10, 3:11, 4;4,10.
The Bible tell us that Jesus Christ alone is the way of salvation, is truth and is life. . . there is no other way. Jesus did not say I am "a" way or one of many ways....He said I am "the" way and so there would be no misunderstanding, the verse ends with ". . .no man cometh to the Father, but by me." This is God's plan for man's redemption. This is the truth that the Bible calls the "Gospel" with means "Good News." Note what the Bible says is the Gospel: "Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures." This is the message that the Apostle Paul, preached and that men believed and were saved and received eternal life.
First, all men are sinners...that means you and I. "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one: There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God. They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one." (Romans 3:10-14) This describes the state of men....lost in sin!
Further God tells us in Romans 6:23, "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." In other words the result of our sin will bring death. Yet, the verse also says the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Note how eternal life is available...it is through Jesus Christ our Lord.
God explains how the "gift of salvation" is received. "That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God."
The verse explains how a person is saved....by belief in Jesus Christ, it also explains why men are condemned...they do believe on the name of the only begotten Son of God.
God's tells us over and over in His word that salvation is through Jesus Christ and Him only.
Here is the problem. People like Mahatma Gandhi do admirable things for their country and people. But Mahatma Gandhi was a Hindu who denied Jesus Christ was the only begotten Son of God. He was a great political leader and he sacrificed greatly to free his people from British rule, but spiritually he was a failure. As a Hindu, he only believed that Jesus was a good teacher or prophet. He did not accept Jesus Christ as the Savior and of God's only begotten Son. Gandhi rejected Jesus Christ as his Savior and believed that by doing good works in this life he could earn the right in the next life to be someone greater than he was here. He believed in reincarnation which teaches a man comes back to earth after life and that a man can merit or earn by good works a better existence. Hindus believe a man can come back as a cow, tree, or anything living. What he is reincarnated to is determined by how he lived his present life. The problem with all this is that it is just not true. If you follow Gandhi does he point you to the true Gospel or to the vain ideas of a man. If you follow his teachings which deny Jesus Christ is God incarnate in flesh and the Savior of the world how can following Gandhi's creed point your to God's plan of salvation? What following his creed, as all the creeds of man, will do is lead a person away from God, Truth, and salvation.
God tells us: "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast." (Ephesians 2:8-9)
No one can merit salvation or earn it. We are sinners under the condemnation of our sin, yet the Lord Jesus Christ came to the earth and He paid our sin debt, the debt we could not pay. If a man will believe and accept this truth, that he is a sinner and that Jesus Christ paid for his sin by His death on the Cross...if any man will repent of his sins and ask God in belief to forgive him....God gives the free gift of salvation. This is the only way forgiveness of sin is received and eternal life....by belief and trust in Jesus Christ alone.
God tells us every man will be judged by whether we believed and accepted Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior or not. Each man comes before God condemned or saved by one question. Did the man received Jesus Christ by faith or did he reject God gift of salvation.
Revelation 20:11-15, describes the judgment of all who try to earn their salvation by good works and being a wonderful person. Because these lost people rejected God's plan and substituted their way, their names were not written in the Book of Life, they all will be cast into the eternal Lake of Fire. The only way to get one's name recorded in the Book of Life is to believe, repent of one's sin and accept Jesus Christ as Savior.
It is OK to admire great men in history and their accomplishments. But they do not provide the way of salvation. Only God can give that because He is our only Creator and God. He provided salvation for us....all we must do is to believe God...and accept his forgiveness and salvation.
I hope that you will seek God's truth. I suggest that you read the Book of John and Romans. Read them carefully and see what God has said. It will also help you to find a good Bible believing church, such as we Independent Baptists. There you can hear God's word explained and get help in finding Jesus Christ as your Savior. If you would like I will recommend a good church in your area to attend. (Student from Emery University)
The answer is absolutely YES, you can be saved. The very fact it matters to you shows the Holy Spirit is working in your life. If He were not working in your life you would not care about salvation and if you did not believe you would not fear eternity without Christ.
Salvation can be an emotional and for most of us it is. However, receiving salvation is not a matter of some feeling or emotion...it is a matter of believing in the Lord Jesus Christ and putting one's faith in Him. The Scriptures teach over and over that salvation is a matter of belief, of accepting by faith God's free gift of salvation. (Ephesians 2:8-9)
It could be that your problem really is in understanding the assurance of salvation. Most Charismatic groups teach one can lose their salvation.....which is absolutely a false doctrine. Many people honestly and sincerely believed in the Lord Jesus Christ and were saved, having repented of their sins, but later when temptations came or spiritual failure occurred...they doubted whether their salvation was real or not. It is normal to think this if we do not fully understand salvation. It is then a matter of know what God has said about assurance of salvation...of knowing that we are saved.
You cannot base assurance of salvation on how you feel. Suppose one day you feel really great that the Lord is near and close.....you feel truly saved and a child of God. Suppose the next day you are tired, sick, someone hurts you, you sin, etc.....you then are disappointed in yourself and because of the problems do not feel like you are saved. And this happens often to us all. How do you really know then? Are you saved or not?
The answer is simple. Did you believe, repent our your sins and ask the Lord to save you? Do you honestly and sincerely believe that Jesus Christ died for your sins and that He and He alone paid your sin debt? Have you then trusted in Him for your salvation realizing that you cannot save yourself? If the answer is yes, then it is God, not our feelings, that affirms that we are truly saved and a child of God. If we truly believed, then we are saved whether we feel like it or not. God has not forsaken us. He is still there seeking to help. The problem is that we have taken our eyes off Him, come under false teaching or let circumstances discourage us and bring confusion to our lives. What we need to do us to put our eyes back on Him and live trusting in His love for us and His provision.
"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation"(Roman 10:9-10).
God cannot lie and if He says if we believe in the Lord Jesus He saves us....then that is true and we can be fully assured we are saved. Our assurance is then based on His word to us, not on our feelings that vary from time to time.
However, what about when we doubt......? The answer is the same. If I truly believed and God saved me....then my doubts are not founded in fact, but in my feelings. God has not changed. If God says we are saved, that should settle the matter and we should then go about living for the Lord in that knowledge.
What if I sin? The answer is found in 1 John 1:8-10, " If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us."
God knows that we will sin. He does not take away our salvation because we fail. We could not save ourselves nor can we keep ourselves saved....that is God's work and is His promise to us. We are humans with a carnal nature and will fail, but God wants us to overcome our sin whatever it is. His provision for us is to tell us to confess it in prayer to Him. He says, He forgives and will also remove or cleanse us from that sin. That means He will help us to overcome it so we do not repent it over and over. Each time we sin....God's says bring it to me....let me help you overcome it. The Lord says in 1 John 5:13, " These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God." God want us to know....and then live in the reality of His salvation.
God wants us in a good Bible believing church with brothers and sisters who truly love the Lord and a pastor who teaches God's truth. I would suggest that you seek to find a good church in your area, preferably and Independent Baptist church where you can have the support of others and learn the Word of God. I can recommend a church in your area if you let me know where you are. I only need to know the town and state, nothing more as I respect and assure your privacy.
I have an message athttps://bible-truth.org/assuran2.html that teaches what the Bible says about assurance of salvation.
Other messages can be found at the following addresses which can help you:
https://bible-truth.org/Sermons.html#06
https://bible-truth.org/Sermons.html#018
https://bible-truth.org/Sermons.html#014
My heart goes out to you and I will do all I can to help you come to the assurance of your salvation. Please write again with any question you might have and also to let me know if what I have written has helped.
I have prayed that the Lord would help you through this and that you will come to His peace and the joy of salvation.
Public profession of one's faith in Jesus Christ is important and is commanded by the Lord. The example in the New Testament was that those that believed, publicly declared their belief and trust in Jesus Christ and were baptized to obey the Lord and to publicly identify themselves with Jesus Christ and a local assembly of believers.
However, I do understand that it could be possible for a person to be saved and not to remember when it happened. Let me explain:
I was saved for a number of years and was asked when did it occur. I had to go back and do some research and was able to find the date. I had forgot the month and year. I must add that I vividly remembered the event and circumstances of the day I was saved, but had forgotten the time.
My father said from his earliest recollections he believed in Jesus Christ as His Savior and all his life could not remember a time when he did not believe. He made a public profession of faith in 1952 during a revival meeting at our church, but he told me he always had loved the Lord and was led to the Lord by his mother who brought him up loving the Lord. He had always lived a godly life even before this time. He died last September and if there was a man that loved the Lord with all his heart . . . it was my father.
I have a good friend who is 92 years old and says his mother also taught him to love the Lord Jesus. He says he cannot remember when he didn't believe in Jesus Christ as his Savior and does not remember the day he was saved. He has as good testimony as any Christian I know and truly does love the Lord and is trusting in Him.
I had a couple in the first church I pastored who were faithful members of our church and showed a clear a testimony of loving the Lord. They were spiritually discerning and lived godly lives. After I left that church they started attending another church and the preacher there taught them if they could not give the date and time they were not saved. So they went forward and publicly professed Jesus Christ as their Savior and were baptized....and now they had a date and time. It was a very serious matter for them and they loved the Lord so much they wanted to be sure.
All this adds up to my belief that it is possible for some that they do not to remember the day and time one was saved.
What is vital is that now.... is that do you presently truly believe, knowing you are a sinner and are you presently trusting in Jesus Christ as your Savior. If you truly are from your heart (Rom. 10:9-10) then you are saved according to God's word. If not, God's will is also clear that He would desire that all men repent of their sins and come to Him. Only God knows your heart, but it is possible to have only a head knowledge of the Lord, but not be fully trusting in Him alone. The proof of our faith is the fruit of our lives. He one is truly saved then without question Christ in our lives will produce fruit. In either case now is the time to settle the matter with the Lord.
The question then is this: Do you presently believe in Jesus Christ as your Savior and are you trusting in Him alone for your salvation? It is assuring to know the very moment we trusted in Christ, but it is not vital for salvation.
The question that you should ask is that did you not only receive Christ as your Savior, but did you also publicly profess Him as your Savior and have you been Scripturally baptized? That means have you publicly professed Jesus Christ as your Savior and were baptized by immersion in a Bible believing church.
Often in my ministry I have found people who were saved but because of being in churches which did not teach or follow the teachings of the New Testament were not Scripturally baptized. Most of them I had the privilege to teach what the Bible says about this subject, see them want to obey the Lord and then Scripturally baptize them.
If the answer is that you have not publicly professed Christ, been Scripturally baptized and joined a sound Bible believing church, then I would urge you to take care of that matter now and follow the Lord in baptism as He instructed and become a member of a good Bible believing church. Most Independent Baptist churches, as you attest too, love the Lord and teach His word.
I would ask you to talk with your pastor about it as he could help your with this.
As stated earlier, a public declaration of our faith in Jesus Christ always follows salvation and if you have not done this....why not do it now. It would be an act of obedience and testimony to others of your genuine faith in Jesus Christ. There is no question that this is what the Lord tells us in His word to do.
"Falling from grace" is in truth a contradiction of terms and totally unbiblical. Think about this: Why is grace necessary or needed? Answer:
because men sin and need to be forgiven. Where there is no sin there is no need of grace or mercy. Do you see the contradiction? How could a Christian fall from grace because he sins, when the very existence of grace is made necessary because man sins. Grace has no meaning if there is no need of it, therefore it is impossible to fall from grace.
We are saved by God's grace when we believe and receive it which is freely offered a part from our works. A better term would be that believers can fall from "fellowship" or "communion" with the Lord. We are told in Ephesians 5:18, "And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit." The verse is saying as wine controls the person who drinks it so we should let the Holy Spirit direct and control our lives. It tells us that we can take control ourselves and not be led of the Holy Spirit and thereby separate ourselves from God's fellowship.
A good illustration would be a parent who loves his child and always seeks its best interests. The parent wants to have a loving and close relationship with the child. But suppose the child disobeys, ignores or treats their parents with disrespect. The relationship suffers because the child is not allowing the parent a close relationship. The fact the child is the son or daughter is not in view. No matter how disobedient the child is he or she is always a son or daughter, but the parent child relationship will suffer or be lose if the child will not allow it. Further the parents cannot bless the child who refuses to accept their fellowship.
A person to whom God saves is eternally saved will always remain a child of God, but we can grieve the Holy Spirit and thereby not let God direct our lives (Eph. 4:30). A believer can sin against God and God in love will chasten him, even to the point of taking his life if he refuses to repent. (see the these verses which address God chastening His children. Heb. 12:6-13, 1 John 5:16-17, 1 Cor. 11:27-32)
1 John 1:9 is written to believers and tells us to confess our sins that God may cleanse us from repeating that sin...cleanse meaning to take it way. Verse 8 and 10 says that we all sin. Verse 6 is the key passage and says, "If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth." The verse is saying that if a Christian claims to be in fellowship with the Lord meaning living an obedient life that pleases the Lord, and is living at the same time is sin....he is a liar. In other words the sinning believer is not in fellowship with the Lord. The context of this passage tells us this is written to saved people and is addressing sin in their lives, thus the Lord is saying sin hinders our fellowship with the Lord and deprives us of His blessings. Therefore verse 9, tells us how to restore the fellowship....confess our sins and repent of them (turn from them).
"For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed" (1 John 1:23-25).
The answer is then "no" a true believer cannot fall from grace because God is ever extending His mercy and is ready to restore us to fellowship, but a Christian can fall from fellowship if he allows unconfessed sin to remain in his life and thereby puts himself beyond God's blessings.
This is referring to a Christian who lives in unrepentant sin and shows no regard for the sufferings of Christ for his sins. The key phrase in the passage is "not discerning the Lord's body" which is referring to the suffering of Christ on the cross. This is a person that is willingly and knowingly sinning against God but will not repent. (See 1 Cor. 10:13) This verse says that God chastened these believers in the church at Corinth who were in gross sin by making them sick and others He had taken their lives. God chastened them as a parent chastens their children to teach them that what they are doing is wrong and destructive and seeks to get them to do what is right.
Hebrews 12:6-11 explains the chasten of God's children. The passage says that God chastens all His children, but does not chasten the unsaved who belong to Satan. It also teaches that if one "professes" to be a Christian and is in unrepentant gross sin and there is no chastening from God...that person is not saved because God chastens all His children.
1 John 5:16-17 also address this matter. This verse shows the seriousness of a Christian who willingly sins and does not repent. God says if you see someone sinning this way....not to pray for them. We are to pray for those we see who sin that is "not unto death." This shows the nature of the sin that is unto death a being one of blatant disregard for the Lord and gross disobedience. Verse 17 says there is sin that does not lead to death. The sin unto death is gross public sin or grossly destructive sin that not only effects the person sinning, but others as well. Basically, the sin unto death is one that a Christian commits who will not repent even after God chastens him seeking to restore the sinner to fellowship. It a Christian refuses...after God's chastening, God will even take his life. . . especially when the sin is one that is done in public and dishonours the Lord and hinders His work. God does this as an act of mercy to stop the destructive actions of a wayward Christian by taking him to heaven.
1 John 1:8-10 explains "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us." Our action should be to confess our sin to the Lord when we sin. God says that all of us sin, but gives us the means to restore fellowship and overcome the sin by confessing them to the Lord which means to admit it to Him and ask Him to give us the strength to overcome it. That is what God means by saying He forgives us our sins and cleanses us from all unrighteousness. As Hebrews 12:10 says this is for our "profit" or benefit. Unrighteousness simply means sinning or not doing what is right. The chastening of God comes in to play when we blatantly continue to sin and refuse to repent. Repent means to turn and go the other way. Hebrews 12:11 tells us, "Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby." Thus God's purpose is plainly stated, He chastens that we it might cause us to have the "peaceable fruit of righteousness."
Salvation comes when a person realizes he is a sinner and in faith (belief) in Jesus Christ asks for forgiveness of sins and eternal life. Many misunderstand repentance to mean just to feel sorry. Feeling sorry for past sins is part of salvation because when we believe God we realize what sin truly is and we are sorry we sinned against God.
However, biblical repentance is more and that is what is in view in the Bible telling us to repent. The word "repentance" means to "turn and go the other way." The person who truly believes in God and by faith received Jesus Christ as their Savior will turn from their sin. Thus repentance is the result of being saved and of accepting Jesus Christ as our Lord. The true believer will turn away from sin.
This is why we teach repentance....because repentance means to turn from sin. Repentance does not save....only true faith in Jesus Christ saves, and then the now changed and born again believer will turn from sin.
Too many churches and preachers are teaching that repentance is not a part of salvation saying that we only need to believe. However, they ignore and confuse people by this teaching and by not explaining that repentance is the result of salvation and if there is no repentance...there is no true belief in the Savior.
2 Corinthians 5:17 'Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new."
All men on earth are responsible to God for their sin. Read Romans 1:18-22... God saves now, and since the beginning of time, all who believed in Him and put their trust in Him for forgiveness of sins.
That is why Jesus Christ came to the earth...that he might do for us what we cannot do for ourselves. As far as other religions are concerned..... Acts 4:16 says " Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." There is no Allah, not any Hindu, Buddhist gods....they are idols and figments of man's imaginations.....they do not exist...so they cannot save....and God says...to receive forgiveness of sins and receive eternal life we must come to our real God and Creator.....God's simple plan is to simply by faith....believe in Jesus Christ and He will save us.
Romans 1:18-24 says,
Jesus in John 3 reveals man's problem...:
Even afterwards when moment of emotion is over.....it is the fact of salvation we have received that gives us comfort... We know that God has promised salvation to those who believe and because we have believed and received Christ in faith....we have the Lord's absolute promise that our sins are forgiven and we have eternal life.
Some days....we might not feel much like we are saved. Suppose we in a moment of weakness fail the Lord and sin....out position and salvation is still sure....even though we might not feel like it is.
Answer:
Adam's sin is referred to as the "fall of man." Romans 5:12 explains: "Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned. . ." Adam's sin made him a sinner and he lost the innocence in which he was created. He, on rejecting God instructions, became corrupt and that included his very nature. His disobedience brought his corruption on his children...and to all mankind. However, we are not judged by Adam's sin, but for our own. Revelation 20:12 "And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works." Because all men are born with the "carnal" nature...which is the nature to sin, they will sin. But God offers us complete and absolute forgiveness for our sins..... if we will receive it. That is why in Genesis 3:15 God promised one who would come and undo the work of Satan in the Garden of Eden. God promised a Savior and that Savior came....the Lord Jesus Christ.
He did not make it hard for us to overcome sin and death that the fall of man brought, but made is simple.....all we have to do was believe the truth...put our faith in Him and repenting of our sins receive forgiveness of sins and eternal life and go to heaven when we die. He did not require that we earn it or merit it by doing good works, He Himself came to earth, God incarnate in the man Jesus Christ and He paid for our sins debt....because we could not do it for ourselves. He suffered and died for us paying the penalty for sin that we could not pay.
God loved us. . . died for every person born on earth (1 John 2:2), and revealed Himself to every man (Romans 1:18-23) so they might be saved. John 3:15-19 reveals solution and the problem.... Verse 19 says, "This is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, but man loved darkness rather than light, because his deeds were evil."
So man can easily be forgiven of His sins if he will accept God's forgiveness. Problem is that most men do not want to believe in God, or they want a god they can manipulate and basically control themselves. However, our Creator, Almighty God, will not be subjected to man. If He did...what a tragedy that would be that sinful men would be put in such a position! Romans 1:18-32 reveals that God shows Himself to every man, but sadly most men refuse and reject God. They make unto themselves gods like men, animals, etc....instead of accepting our true God and Savior. The passage also states why man is condemned who does not believe and put trust in Jesus Christ. Man is condemned for his sin in rejecting God's grace and Christ's sacrifice for his sins. He knows the truth because God has showed it to him (Rom. 1:19) This is man's problem....he loves sin and refused to accept God's rightness (righteousness). Think....would not the world be a wonderful place if men would not lie, cheat, steal, kill and hurt one another. Would not the world be better if man truly loved each other and as God does... and seek the best for others?
What has rejecting God and refusing to believe in Him done for man? Well, the answer is.....the cut themselves off from God grace and the benefits of doing what is right. Man is rejecting God sets his course for destruction. Sin is doing what is wrong....and God seeks to warn us of this and extent to us eternal salvation....
I have an article on my web site at https://bible-truth.org/gospel.html titled "God's Simple Plan of Salvation" I explains God's plan in some detail. Maybe that would help you to understand more about who God is an what is His plan to save men from their sins.
"Whosoever" means that anyone can ask for salvation. Verses 11-13 explains that God places no restrictions on salvation as to who can be saved. Most Jews, knowing that they were God's chosen people, did not understand that salvation was for all men, Jew and Gentile alike. They were relying on their birth as Jews and their good works to save them. Verse 2, states that the Jews had a zeal for God, but without knowledge. Paul in Romans 10 is explaining that salvation is to all men and by faith alone.
The meaning of the verse is two fold. One..."whosoever" (anyone Jew or Gentile) who in faith calls upon the Lord will be saved. Second, it that salvation only possible through Jesus the Christ. Acts 4:12 "Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." Jesus is the only Savior and one must come to Him for salvation.
The word "call upon" in the original language means to "invoke worship, to appeal to, and to call." In other words a person who "calls upon or appeals" to the Lord to save them from their sins shall be saved. From the Greek definition we see it means more than just saying the words and this is confirmed by other passages also.
Earlier in the passage Romans 10:9-10 states: "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."
The passages says that if a person "confesses" which means to acknowledge that Jesus is the Lord and...believes in one's heart that God has raised Him from the dead, God would save that person. Simply this means that Jesus is God our Savior. Verse 10 explains that if this confession or appeal comes from a person's heart...they will be saved. Just saying the words does not save....what saves is a heart felt acknowledgement that a person is appealing to God to save them from their sins....and recognizing that they cannot save themselves and thus they are relying wholly on the Lord Jesus Christ for their salvation. This is where repentance comes in. In receiving salvation a person sees himself a sinner unable to save himself and hearing the truth that Jesus is the Savior and offers salvation to all who will believer and receive it....that person, in faith, acknowledges this truth and asks God for forgiveness and to be saved. (2 Peter 3:9 "The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.")
So, "upon the name of the Lord" refers to a person putting his faith in Jesus Christ for salvation and nothing or no one else.
Ephesians 2:8-9 "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast."
This passage explains that salvation is not something that a person can merit or earn by any good works, ritual and anything else. Salvation is the "gift" of God through His grace. So the person who is "saved" and whose sins are forgiven and receives eternal life. . . is the one who wholly puts their faith in Jesus Christ for their salvation. We throw ourselves on God's mercy and grace and He promises to save us.
1 John 2:2 states: "And he (Jesus Christ) is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world." The word "propitiation" means full payment. When Jesus suffered and died for our sins and was resurrected. . . He paid fully our sin debt. He then offers salvation to us freely as a gift if we will receive or accept it. That is why Romans 10:13 says the one who is saved is the one who calls on the Lord. We acknowledge our sin and that He is our God and Savior and in simple faith ask God to save us. And He does. . . that is His promise!
For a biblical explanation of God's plan of salvation go to https://bible-truth.org/gospel.html .
Yes, admittedly there are those who call themselves Christians who do not live for the Lord. Most probably are not really saved, but that does not change the truth. Those who are true Christians love the Lord and will try to do right in their lives. Yes, at times all will fail and sin....but that really does not change the fact that those in heaven will not have a sin nature and there is no sin in heaven.....
So.....it should be explained to him that there are no such people as he does not like in heaven, but hell will be full of them.
His second problem is much deeper. The reason that he sees Christians as being "holier-than-thou" is probably because he knows he is a sinner and the testimony of Christians rebukes him for rejecting God in his life and not accepting God's free offer of salvation. His foolish response shows he knows what is right, but is rebelling against it. Further....does not his attitude also seem to be a little "holier-than-thou" too? It seems he thinks himself better than Christians.....and is doing what he is accusing Christians of doing.
Answer:
Believers will sin and God says so.... 1 John 1:8-10 was written to believers....not to the unsaved...(see Chapter 2:1) God saves to the saved.... "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us" (1 John 1:8-10).
God says believers are to confess their sins...as did David...and God cleanses them...meaning He helps them to remove the sin from their lives and keep them from repeating it.
Note what 1 John 5: 16-17 says, "If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it. All unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death" (1 John 5:16-17).
God says there is a sin unto death...which means physical death for believers if they refused to repent (turn from their sin) and confess it to the Lord. God chastens unrepentant believers as Hebrews 12:6-11 clearly teaches. 1 Corinthians 11:29-32 describes the chastening of unrepentant Christians in the church in Corinth. God says they did not discern the body of Christ. That means they lived in open sin in disregard that Jesus had to suffer for the sins they committed every day. They then knowing sin, knowing they are causing Jesus more suffering. God said He chastened these people by making some of them sick and others He had taken their lives. In an act of love God stopped them from continuing in sin and its destructive result by taking their lives.
So to answer you question. Yes, true believers "can" commit adultery and go to heaven. It is a rare occasion that a true believer would stooped to the level of sin...but it is possible...though not likely.
1 Corinthians 3:10-15 says at the BEMA judgment all believers will be judged. Those that were not faithful or lived with unconfessed sin in their lives will not receive any reward...but verse 15 says... "If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire." (1 Corinthians 3:15) In other words once a believer is truly saved he cannot lose the salvation God gives to him. He can lose reward and quite honestly many believers will be solely ashamed when they meet the Lord face to face....
When God says that "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life" (John 3:16) He means "everlasting" or eternal life. If God gives you eternal life....then it is eternal and cannot end. My article should clear up other questions you and your friend might have. God bless you as you study God's word.
The Greek word is metanoeo which means "to perceive afterwards" (Meta = after noeo = perceive ) which means that a person's mind is changed and they now see things differently than they did before. In other words, when a person repents they afterwards perceive or understand what they did not before and in the Bible it is always for the better. The word is always used to denote a change of mind from something wrong or incorrect to one of good or correct.
For the repentant person, what they did not understand (perceive) before (when they are unsaved) they now do understand, and they do an "about face" accepting what is correct. Vines Expository Dictionary of New Testament Words says it means to "change one's mind or purpose."
Another example is "Repent (metanoeo) ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord" (Acts 3:19)
So, your pastor is correct when he says biblically to repent means to reverse one's previous thinking or actions and go in the other direction. Some try to dismiss the necessity of repentance in salvation. But think about this....an unsaved man is lost in sins and is in a state of rejection or rebellion from God. His mind is controlled by his carnal nature which is totally selfish and against God. (See 1 Cor. 2:14) However, he hears the Gospel and learns of Jesus Christ's sacrifice for his sins. He see now that God says that he is a sinner and he accepts God's truth. If then turns to God, calls on God to save him and now begins a new life....in total reversal of his life as a lost man. He repents....meaning he now perceives the truth and he turns from his old former ways unto the Lord.
On the contrary, suppose the same man hears God's truth....and rejects it continuing his life as a sinner. He did not repent and he is not saved. Thus repentance is the process of change, wherein a person believes God, puts their trust in Him and turns from sin unto righteousness. Repentance then is necessary for salvation.
The problem with a lot of "professions of faith" is that the person makes a public dedication of salvation probably coming under conviction for their sin. They see themselves as lost so they want to go to heaven. With head knowledge they give mental consent to God truth and salvation, but there is no change in their hearts and non in their lives. Romans 10:10 says we must believe with the heart in order to be saved. However, this person does not repent meaning turn from their former lives. They continue on just as before. That then would indicate no repentance has taken place....and no salvation. If there is no repentance in a person life....a turning to God from sin....it is a serious indication the person's declaration of faith is not real. Read what Jesus said about this: "Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity." (Matthew 7:21-23)
Not all who say the love Jesus are saved, and Jesus said those that are "doeth the will of my Father." That means they live their lives for the Lord Jesus Christ. The unsaved...say they love Jesus, do "great" acts, but their hearts are not right with the Lord. Early Jesus said, " And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?" (Luke 6:46)
Repentance is truly a necessary part of salvation.
First your struggles are those of a saved man. Lost people are not concerned with when they were saved. The answer to your question is simple. The New Testament says we are to believe in Jesus Christ as our Savior, fully trusting in Him alone for our salvation. You have a clear testimony that you have and do believe. So the matter of whether you are saved or not is answered.....you believe so you are saved. The exact time you believed is of no importance and nowhere in the Bible does God mention that we must know the exact time. My father is a good example. He was a godly man all his life. About 1954 in a revival he went forward and made a public profession of faith and was baptized, but he told me many times he did not know when he actually was saved. His mother, who died when he was 12, taught him about the Lord from his earliest childhood. He told me he could not remember when he was not saved, because he had believed as far back as he could remember. I have a friend named Ralph who also had the same testimony and a number of others. The fact is the Bible says we are saved when we believe and are indwelled by the Holy Spirit. It never stresses, when but that we at some point in time believed. I have heard a few preacher get up and stress that if a person did not know the time they probably were not saved. That is pure foolishness and after studying the Bible now of over 30 years I can tell you that is not in God's word.
I know when I was saved. I was at a funeral of my wife's grandmother. I forgot the date and years later had to go and ask when was her grandmother's funeral. Yes, sometimes doubts have come from my lack of trusting the Lord. Believing in the Lord means just that...trusting in the Lord. If you believe now, surely you are saved, so then accept that and get on with the living your life for the Lord. The devil knows our weaknesses and he will exploit them and cause us to doubt. And yes, believers will sin as 1 John 1:8-10 plainly states. But when we sin we confess it to the Lord and He guides us to overcoming the sin. That way we stay in fellowship with Him and live accomplishing His will. But one thing that you should consider....lost people are not concerned about their sin, only a saved person under conviction of the Holy Spirit that lives in them is concerned with their sins.
Your continuing to doubt is certainly not helpful to your spiritual life and relationship with the Lord. It is really a lack of trust and faith on your part. We all battle with that in varying degrees. Years ago I took an oath and joined the Army. At that moment, I became a soldier, but I did not feel much like one and knew little or nothing about being one. But I began to live the life, accept the commands of those over me, and trained. As I continued to live as a soldier and accept that I was a soldier. In time, I became very confident in my abilities and training and felt that I was a good soldier. But it took time. Some who joined with me dropped out because they would not accept that they were now soldiers and belonged to Uncle Sam. When we believe we become God's children and we grow close to Him as we accept that truth and live as He would have us. Our assurance of the fact of our salvation is in God's word and promise....our confidence comes from living for Him.
Over the years I have known a lot of people who professed to know the Lord. The ones who God blessed, were those who were faithful to Him and trusted Him. They attended all the services of their church, gave their tithes and offerings, worshiped God, prayed and read and studied the Bible. They were not ashamed of being a child of God and lived for the Lord. (See Eph. 5:18) Often the doubts we have come from the conviction of the Holy Spirit because we are not being faithful as God would have us. I have an article on assurance of salvation at https://bible-truth.org/assuran2.html which you might like to read.
Christians then remain in heaven until the Rapture which is described in 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18. At that time the believer returns to the earth and is resurrected and receives their new resurrected body. Christians will be with Christ in heaven and on earth in the Millennial Kingdom serving Him for all eternity.
If the person who was dying had enough time or was coherent so they could understand and they believed asking God in their heart, or aloud, to save them they would be saved.
If the person had heard the Gospel earlier in their life they would have sufficient knowledge to believe.
We have all heard of what is called the "fox hole" prayer in which a person in a moment of danger when their life was threaten would pray and ask God to save them. Some of the time their belief in Jesus Christ was genuine and they person was shared and then went one to live a Christian life. Other times, people who prayed a "fox hole" prayer did not die, and when the danger was over continued to live like they had before. Clearly they were not saved.
So in reality we do not know if a person in such a situation, who asked God to save them expressed saving faith, or not. Only God knows our hearts and as Romans 10:10 says, with the heart man believes unto righteousness.
Our service to the Lord is to give a witness for Jesus Christ when we have the opportunity and circumstances permit it. It is the Holy Spirit that works in people's hearts and brings genuine conviction over sin and enables a person to exercise saving faith. You would need to tell them that God loves them and that Jesus Christ died for their sins and offers them forgiveness of sins and eternal life if they will believe and accept God's offer of salvation. Their response or understanding of the matter would depend on their prior knowledge of the Gospel to some degree, but all men know there is God. With your verbal witness to the person, would be the convicting power of the Holy Spirit to illuminate the truth so they person could understand it. God is certainly capable of giving a person an understanding of the saving Gospel in such a situation, so understanding salvation would not solely depend on our being able to explain it in a short time. Whether they are saved or not would depend on their believing the truth as you explain it to them, and as the Holy Spirit works in their heart.
I think that a person who understands truly that he is a sinner will to some degree feel sorry for his sins, but that is not repentance. Repentance is choosing to believe and have a different mind about sin than they did before when they were living a life apart of God. The unsaved man is in rebellion against God whether he recognizes it or not. Once a man sees the truth that he is a sinner and deserving of hell, he chooses either to believe God or reject him.
Therefore I would answer your question "no." I do not believe "godly sorrow" is necessary for salvation, but biblical repentance is. They are not the same. Godly sorry may accompany repentance, but is not based on it. Salvation is based on one's belief in Jesus Christ as their Savior. One's faith is based on one's understanding and acceptance of the truth they are lost and need a Savior. People who do not see themselves as sinner....will not be saved. Jesus said He came to bring sinners to repentance...not the righteous.(Luke 5:32)
Do I believe that a person will "feel" sorrow for their sins? Yes, to some degree, but it is never stated as a condition of salvation...whereas belief (faith) and repentance are. The basis of true repentance is believing the God's truth that we are sinners. We are made in the image of God having intelligence, a will and emotion. Emotion is an important part of our make up and it can be truly an emotional thing to understand who our Creator is and of His amazing love for us. Our adoration of God is both emotional and intellectual. But Jesus said we are to worship the Lord in Spirit and truth. He did not say emotionally. Will we feel emotion yes...but it is not stated as necessary. True worship is an act of faith...of belief and acceptance and surrender to God's Word and His will.
Jesus paid the penalty for the sins of believers and ALSO of the whole world (propitiation=full payment). Thus all men are offered salvation (John 3:16, Romans 1:18-23). However, only those who believe and accept Jesus Christ as their Savior are forgiven for their sins and are saved. "He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him." (John 3:36)
It is hard to find anyone who does not say the believe in God. Yet, they refuse to have Him their lives or to obey what He says. Thus they truly do not have a saving faith. Faith believes and acts upon that what they accept as truth. If they believed in God, then He is their Creator and they are responsible to Him...but they refuse to accept Him as their being responsible to Him.
Many say they believe but will not live for the Lord. This shows they are making a false profess, because their actions do not back up what they say. Jesus said to such people in His day..... "And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?" (Luke 6:46)''
Further Jesus explained this in Matthew 7,
"Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity." (Matthew 7:21-23)
When a person is saved God forgives all their sins and gives them eternal or everlasting life. In simple terms that means the true Christian has become an adopted child of God and will eternally be in God's family. God forgives all past, present and future sins.
Sadly, some churches teach that salvation can be lost, but they are wrong and really do not understand salvation. Man cannot earn or merit salvation. "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast." (Ephesians 2:8-9) In other words doing any "work" like baptism, church membership, good deeds, etc does not merit us salvation with God. A person is saved when they believe God and in faith repent of their sins and accept Jesus' sacrifice alone for our sins. Therefore a person cannot earn their salvation, nor can they keep themselves saved by their good works.
Those that teach a person can lose their salvation are basically teaching that Christ only made the down payment on one's salvation and the person then must keep up the payments by living a faithful life and not sinning. They teach a person can reject God and go back into sin and God then will reject that person and he/she will lose their salvation.
However, that is not what God's word teaches. I have an article at https://bible-truth.org/assuran2.html which explains why the Bible teaches that salvation cannot be lose.
Believers can and do sin (1 John 1:8-10). God will chasten a believer who refuses to repent of their sins and can even take their life if the refuse to turn from public blatant sin, but God does not take away their salvation.
In Romans 4:16, Paul is addressing the issue of law and grace with the Jews. God said through him, "Therefore it is of faith, that it might be by grace; to the end the promise might be sure to all the seed; not to that only which is of the law, but to that also which is of the faith of Abraham; who is the father of us all" (Romans 4:16). Paul is saying that salvation is by faith through the grace of God. Salvation is not of the law (works) which never save anyone but by faith as exampled by Abraham. God says we are saved by grace through faith. Faith is not a work, but a belief in Jesus Christ and God's truths. This verse refutes the ideas of Calvinism which teach that God's grace is irresistible. The offer of grace can certainly be rejected. The verse is saying that salvation is received by faith and if not by faith it is not grace and therefore a work under the law which cannot save.
Paul explains further saying, "By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God." (Romans 5:2)
I will say it is possible for a person to be saved by hearing the Gospel from the preaching of a woman.....though it is not likely. There are lots of people who claim to know Jesus Christ as their Savior who are not His. (Matthew 7:21-23)
The Gospel stands alone and the vitality of that truth does not rest with or on the messenger. I know a preacher who said he pastored a church and lead a good number of people to the Lord...before he was saved.
Works follow salvation.... It is God's plan is that the true believer will obey the Lord and that means live for Him....living a godly life and doing good works. An unsaved man cannot do spiritual things because he does not have God's Spirit and the new nature. (1 Cor. 2:14) Verse 10 says, Believers are God's workmanship. Until a person by faith receives Jesus Christ as their Savior they are not God's workmanship which means "something that is made." Believers are made by God..."created" meaning to "to fabricate or manufacture" to do good works. The verse is saying plainly good works are what the salvation by faith is to produce in one's life. You saying works is a part of salvation is putting the cart before the horse.
The reason that James made the statement in James 2 confirms this truth. A man who has not by faith been born again, had his sins forgiven and received eternal life and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit cannot do works that please the Lord. God says that "faith without works is dead" meaning that true faith will produce works. Works without true faith...is done in the flesh, not in the spirit. A person who is not born again does not have God's Spirit and cannot do "good" works. The flesh does not honor the Lord, only that which we do in the power and Spirit of God.
Therefore works are not a part of receiving salvation, but they follow true salvation. If a person truly believes some which is faith, it will produce action. Not true faith, no action.
The fact that you are so concerned about assurance and knowing you will go to heaven shows that you are spiritually minded which is the mark of a true Christian. The lost or unsaved are not interested in the things of God. They do not ask God for forgiveness because they are not concerned about their sins. Being sorry for sins and repenting of them is what true believers do because the hate sin and want of overcome it in their lives.
I have written several articles that fully address what the Bible says about salvation and the biblical truth that it is eternal. You can find these articles at:
"Can a person know for sure that when he dies he will go to heaven?" https://bible-truth.org/assuran2.html
"Saved or Not?" https://bible-truth.org/SavedorNot.html
"Believers are Overcomers!" (Sermon) https://bible-truth.org/1JN5-4-13.html
You can copy the link and paste it into your browser to read the articles.
As you read these articles I think you will see God's truth about the assurance of salvation. I can honestly say that the devil wants us to be confused and wish to keep us from having the full joy and peace of our salvation. Those churches and individuals who teach the false doctrine that one can lose their salvation do not understand God's salvation and are being used to enslave people in a sea of doubt. It certainly is not "Baptist" heresy as many Bible believing Christians also believe and teach "Once saved, Always saved."
"Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works. Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble. But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead?" (James 2:18-20)
James explained that a faith that does not produce biblical action or works is vain, and dead, and not a saving faith. James absolutely did not say that works saves, but that true saving faith will show forth evidence in the life of a truly saved person. Read James 2:19-20.
God plainly states that works do not save: "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them. " (Ephesians 2:8-10) This verse is explicitly clear that works has not part in a person coming to Christ in salvation. However, verse 10 says that saved people are ordained, or chosen to walk in works....that means live a godly life. God saves those who believe and true belief will produce godly living.
Biblical faith is based on believing and living the word of God...on accepting by faith the stated promises and teachings of God in His word the Bible. James was addressing those who profess to be Christians but live in sin and have no works. These people claimed to be saved, but have no evidence in their lives that they know Jesus Christ as their Savior. Their lives are not changed and they live like the unsaved. James then told them, You say you have faith?? Where is the works of life that shows you have faith? Where is the evidence of salvation?
If you would like a biblical answer to your question on James 2:18 please read the article athttps://bible-truth.org/James2-24.html "Does James teach Salvation by Faith Plus Works?"
The Bible also plainly states repeatedly that yes, once a person truly believes they are eternally saved. If you are interested you can read my article at https://bible-truth.org/msg105.html "Eternal Security - Once saved always saved" - Romans 8:1-17,35-39
I encourage you to read the Bible and believe God....not false churches or teachers. I wish you God's direction as you seek His truth.
Election is never to salvation but to what salvation gives to the believer. My article goes into some detail about what election means in the New Testament. The elect are those that have believed and received salvation and have received what God elected them to have as born again believers. Yes, Calvinism has cloudy the matter because instead of interpreting what the words actually literally say, many with a Calvinistic view point impose their ideas on the passage. Did God know that Paul would believe and accept Him as His Savior? Certainly, He did and knowing Paul would believe, God chose to use Him to be the Apostle to the Gentiles, the same way He knew the other Apostles would believe and He called them also.
In God's eyes the true believer without sin because my sins are covered under the blood of Jesus Christ, that means all my sins, past, present and future. “And you, being dead in your sins and the uncircumcision of your flesh, hath he quickened together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses” (Colossians 2:13) It does not mean the believer will not sin, but that they are atoned for by the blood of Jesus Christ. I also do not commit the sins of the references you sited....but that does not mean that I am not capable of such sins. I still have the old nature that has not be eradicated. It is still there but not in control as with an unsaved man. I do not have to chose to sin and that is what the new nature of Christ gives the believer.
Sir, when God made reference to those sins He was identifying the life style of the unsaved. I sin and God says I do, however His propitiation (full payment) for my sins was absolute and complete. (Col. 2:10-15) I don't commit those particular sins, but my sins are more subtle. Paul battle the same problem in his life as Romans 7:14-20, plainly reveals. Paul said he sinned...”Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.” (Romans 7:20)
I have no righteousness of my own and even though I do not commit the grosser sins, I have nothing to brag of and my keeping myself from these sins is the evidence of God's salvation, grace, and indwelling presence in my life. If I through my will and human endeavor do not these gross sins, if I accepted your premise, then I would be by my own righteousness keeping my self from sin and earning my continuing salvation. No...I do not these sins because of the Holy Spirit that I yield to and who is the source of all righteousness. I am not in my own power not sinning, but in the power of God who in me. When I turn from temptation I do so in the power of God, not in myself. My old carnal nature it the source of temptation. (James 1:14-18). Sir, the unsaved man cannot be righteous nor can he keep from sinning. The believer can because he has the new nature, the nature of God in him.
I have studied God's word of over thirty years....I have not blindly accepted anything I was taught in college as you suggest. (It is a poor argument that makes statement such as this. You do not know where I learned what I believe. However, I will tell you plainly.....thirty years of intense study of God's word is where I learned what I belileve). I have investigated each teaching on my own and I rejected those things that were in error. I am not perfect...but I know that I have God's promise of eternal security and I cannot be lost. You cannot convince me other wise with human wisdom or misinterpreting God's word.
1 John 1:7 says that if the believer sins He falls from “fellowship” not salvation. Verse 8 says if we confess our sins, He forgives and cleanses us from that sin. A believer is already forgiven....so the forgiveness in this verse means in to put away our sins. The power to overcome the sin is with God, when we confess we have sinned against him. It is our willingness to yield to God’s convicting power that works in us to overcome the continuation of sins and this is because of our being the child of God who is indwelled by the Holy Spirit.
If we do not sin...why does God address it in the believer’s life so often in the Scriptures? Why does he give assurance of salvation to those who believe, and say we have eternal life, if we can by our sins lose it? “For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day.”: (2 Timothy 1:12)
My position is that although I am an Independent Baptist, but faith is in God's word alone and not in any church or denomination. Traditionally most would agree that the Baptist historically have been Bible believers and correctly upheld God's word. Sadly, today there are many who use the name who do not revere the Bible and follow it. I simply accept God's very words and His truth and seek to live by them and teach others. Many times people write seeking to understand the Bible correctly. I wrote an article that explains how to biblically interpret God's word. You might find it helpful. https://bible-truth.org/Principles.htm.
To answer your question. There is only one way that God has given us to receive forgiveness of our sins and eternal life. Proverbs 14:12 says, "There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death." (Proverbs 14:12)
The way was made possible by the Lord Jesus Christ when He suffered and died on the cross. He alone paid the price for the sins of man and therefore is the only Savior. Christ said:
"Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. (John 14:6)
He further said: "Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that entereth not by the door into the sheepfold, but climbeth up some other way, the same is a thief and a robber." (John 10:1)
There are many religions, churches, preachers, and cults all claiming to speaking for God. It is clear there are some real problems with these religions because they mostly disagree with each other and with God’s word. So the true seeker of God has only one source to find the Lord's truth and that is His written and preserved Word. Jesus said in His prayer for believers "Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth." (John 17:17)
Paul stated this truth clearly speaking of true believers: "In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise, Which is the earnest of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto the praise of his glory." (Ephesians 1:13-14)
James tells us "Do not err, my beloved brethren. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning. Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures." (James 1:16-18)
God say in Acts, "Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." (Acts 4:12)
God has made the truth of salvation simple saying, "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. . . .For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved." (Romans 10:9-10; 13)
The Bible is clear that keeping God’s commandments are not the way to salvation. Yes, we are to obey and keep His commandments but His commandments are not written to those who have not been saved, but rather to the unsaved. Keeping the commandments are keeping the Law and are of works and God says we cannot work for our salvation.
"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them." (Ephesians 2:8-10) Note the works follows salvation, not before.
Clearly a person cannot merit or earn their salvation by their good works. Because all men are sinners and under the condemnation of sin. Sin must be paid for and God made that provision for us in sending His Son Jesus Christ to paid the debt of sin we owed. Only He is righteous and only can God satisfy the payment of sin for Himself. Christ died in our place on the cross because God loves His creation and His love provided the way to be forgiven because we could not atone for our on sins.
Note what Jesus actually said about salvation: "That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." (John 3:15-18)
For some it is awful hard to understand this, but it is vividly clear in the Bible.
God says salvation is received by faith when we believe God’s word and accept Him and His forgiven for our sins. As Ephesians 2:9 says we are saved through faith.
The Book of Hebrews says, "But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him." (Hebrews 11:6)
The bottom line is the only way is to believe and accept God’s word. That is hard to do with so many teaching things that are contrary to the Bible. Peter explained "Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation." (2 Peter 1:20) The word "prophecy" refer to the God’s revealed word.
I suppose the question we must answer is: Are we to believe the Bible, which is God’s word?
Thank you again for writing and sharing this with me. Please let me know how are progress and if I can help in anyway...please let me know.